Have you ever noticed that you can be tooling along,
enjoying your life with everything going great and you wake up one day and you
feel totally different? You don’t know why. Nothing has changed, you just feel
different. What felt great yesterday, feels annoying today. What brought you
joy last week, makes you feel antsy or anxious.
It’s the strangest thing and I don’t know why it happens. I
will sometimes sit and think about what could be causing it. Is there some unconscious
thing happening? Am I getting sick? Am I having PMS? What the heck happened?
Energy is an amazing thing. It flows and it moves and it
gets stuck at times as well. When things are fluid and free moving everything
seems great but there are times that energy can get stuck. There can be a myriad
of reasons and sometimes it’s helpful to work through it but other times it’s
just OK to get the energy moving again and not worry about the why.
Here are a few ways to shift your energy.
Go for a walk- Get the energy moving through your body. Walk
with the purpose of being in the moment. Feel how you are feeling as your body
moves along the terrain. See the sights around you. How do they make you feel?
Does your environment uplift you or does it make you anxious or drain you. Pay attention.
Create a light hearted piece of art- Get out some colors and
doodle, smear the paint around and just have fun. Rip out beautiful images from
catalogs and magazines and create your own beautiful image. Doodle on it with
pens and write uplifting words to yourself. Have fun without any preconceived
notions of how it will turn out.
Purge- Take some time alone and write out every thought that
is going on in your head The good, the bad, and the downright ugly. Don’t
censor yourself. Allow the emotions to flow. Stay in the moment with what is
happening and if you notice a judging voice pop up, thank it for its concern
and tell it you are perfectly safe and continue to let it all out. When you
finish, you can burn the pages and watch them go up in smoke. You will feel
lighter.
Practice gratitude- I know this is an old standby but it can’t
be forgotten for the way it can shift a mood. Start simple if you can’t find
much to be grateful for and see where your energy leads you. Try to feel the emotions
that rise up. When you are feeling grateful for your family, spend a moment
feeling how that feels in your body, let it grow and expand and fill you up.
You will find that each swell in emotion will carry you higher into the next
emotion of gratitude and it will grow like a wave that moves through the ocean
toward the shore. Ride the wave.
Be present- Sometimes you need to have downtime. You can’t
live your whole life in an elated state of mind. There has to be ups and downs.
There has to be moments when you are out in the world and then there are times
when you pull back within yourself to reflect. It is natural and it is healthy.
Stay in the moment and experience it all.
No matter what, be gentle with yourself. Treat yourself as
you would a small, sad child. Nurture yourself and be patient. This too will
pass.
wonderful, timely post Michelle :) Love the simple yet powerful suggestions!
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